**If you have anger issues or highly sensitive, we would not be a fit** It would be a special type of gentleman who is willing and actually makes the flight to meet in person. I am not interested nor tolerating a 6 month virtual dialogue. I believe in strong core values of love, forgiveness that are pillars to every other good thing. A man that holds grudges or angers easily would not be my fit. I do not have time for that. My daily life is a blend of good old sultry jazz music or smooth jazz for a chill ambience. I love live smooth jazz shows! I love to experiment in the kitchen with new spices and new recipes. I’m obsessed with making homemade pesto veggie pizzas these days. A good laugh, conversation and silence can be so enjoyable with the right man. I’m just super low key these days and focusing on only things & people that bring positivity and of value to life. He would be my bestie to laugh, have good chats and be two peas in a pod. I’m looking to build something special between myself and that man as we go through the journey together. If you’re looking for a woman who likes to doll up each day, that would not be me. I live in workout clothes typically— the tailored and dressy clothes are more rare. I work from home in risk adjustment sector of healthcare and do multiple projects as a content creator on the side. I’m 49 so I’m looking to build something for marriage not silliness. I’m a woman who values little things that matter each day.