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Stealing glances across a crowded room, seeing no one but ourselves.

** I am black now & will still be black when you introduce me to your family so if that is going to be an issue it may be best to sort that out now before we start chatting* I am a single dad of a lovely teenage daughter who is going to university this year. I have a great career as the Director of Treasury for a Europe based corporate organisation. It’s a job I enjoy leading a great team based abroad. There is a very good chance my career would take me abroad (to live & work) at some point & if that is a deal breaker I would understand. I am passionate about giving back to society hence I volunteer with various charities. Writing is my preferred creative outlet & I write for children/young adults.I am also not blind to some of the challenges in our society so I also write articles on social issues as economic inequality,homelessness & poverty.My motto is “..if we can help someone and we choose not to,then what’s the point of being here..”? I enjoy travelling( there are so many parts of the world I would love to see) walking, hiking & do go to the gym as much as I can to keep fit.I love cooking and baking and it’s important that you do too. I would love to meet someone attractive, kind, compassionate, affectionate, balanced, family oriented, good with people, GSOH who can laugh at & with me. I want my partner to be driven & ambitious and I would be her chief cheerleader. Team work too is very important and only team players need apply. We must have each others’ back.

6'  0"   (183 cm)
Family Roots
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Has Kids
Wants Kids
Master's Degree
Financial / Accounting / Insurance / Real Estate
$75,000 - $100,000
Middle Of The Road
What languages do you speak?
Favorite Music
R&B / Soul
Favorite Actors
Omar Sharif, Tele Savalas, David Jason, George Cole
Favorite Actresses
Sophia Loren
Favorite Artists
Brian Adams, Ed Sheehan, Luther Vandross
Favorite Athletes
Usain Bolt, Marcus Rashford,Eric Cantona
Favorite Authors
John Grisham, Chinua Achebe, Jeffrey Archer, Femi Osofisan
Favorite Bands
Westlife, JLS
Favorite Hangouts
Anywhere peaceful and/or exciting
Favorite Books
A Quiver Full of Arrows
Favorite Cities
London, Paris, Rome, New York, Amsterdam, Tokyo
Favorite Clothing Stores
TK Maxx
Favorite Colors
Favorite Country
Japan, United Kingdom, USA, Canada, The Seychelles, Italy
Favorite Drinks
Fresh Juices
Favorite Fashion Designers
TM Lewin, GAP, Barbour
Favorite Fast Foods
I don’t eat fast food
Favorite Magazines
The Economist
Favorite Comedies
Only Fools & Horses
Favorite Horror Movies
I am not a big fan of horror movies
Favorite News Anchor
Erin Burnett
Favorite Night Clubs
I am not a fan of night clubbing
Favorite Plays
Any play by Chinua Achebe, Wole Soyinka or Femi Osofisan
Favorite Politicians
Winston Churchill, Barrack Obama
Favorite Sports Teams
Manchester United
Favorite Songs At The Moment
“flying without wings” by Westlife
Favorite Sports
Favorite TV Comedies
Only Fools & Horses
Favorite TV News Sources
Favorite Foods
Jollof rice and plantain
Favorite Styles Of Music
I love being around children because they bring an infectious energy into any space
I love going to the theatre (mainly to watch comedy and satirical production)and comedy clubs
Community Service
I am passionate about volunteering and also write articles highlighting issues as poverty, homelessness, income inequality
I love cooking and believe couples should cook together
I am an African! I enjoy dancing and have rhythm and an ear for drum beat and percussion.
Dogs and Cats
I would love to have a dog as a pet one of these days.
You have to look after your health and body so I exercise daily
I am a foodie as I love cooking and baking. You need to try my blueberry fruit cake to fully appreciate what I am talking about.
Manchester United are my favourite club
It’s therapeutic isn’t it?
Live Concerts
I don’t go to as many as I would want to
My favorite movie of all time is “When Harry Met Sally”. Funny, romantic and relatable.
It’s important to be grounded, balanced and to have a set of principles that guide our actions
I enjoy politics and keep myself aware of all that is going on (current affairs)
I enjoy reading because it is important to feed the mind and it is also good for me because I am a writer.
Faith is important to me. It gives me balance and grounding.
I am a big fan of Manchester United.
I enjoy going to the theatre especially comedy productions
There is so much of the world to see and I hope you’ll want to come along with me.
I enjoy walking and it does allow me the opportunity to clear my mind
I am a published author and writer of children books
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Average
Trustingness Somewhat Skeptical
Confidence Very Confident
Independence Very Independent
Mood Average
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Introverted
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Compliant
Dress Average
Energy Somewhat High
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Large Part
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Late
Spending Average
Work Ethic Driven
Describe the perfect evening.
One spent with loved ones.
Describe your perfect weekend.
One spent either with loved ones or spent doing something to help and support others
Do you believe in love at first sight?
No. Attraction at first sight but love requires a deeper feeing and connection:
How many kids would you like to have?
Two or three (I have one already)
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
It’s important that we all look after our physical appearance
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
To hel people & make their dreams come true.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
That if I have the ability to help someone and I don’t, then what is my purpose for being here? Life should not be lived always looking inwards but giving to others is an important part of life and living.
What do your friends like about you most?
My kindness and reliability
What gets on your nerves?
Racism and any other form of discrimination. Inequality in the world.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Trust, Companionship, Intimacy, Conversation and Listening
What turns you off?
Bad hygiene, Arrogance, Cruelty
What turns you on?
Ambition, Intelligence, Physical attraction, Compassion
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