Just looking for my soulmate

45 year old black female living in Wisconsin. I have four children. I love being a mom. I would like to meet someone who likes children and being a leader. I would like someone who likes to travel as a family and go camping, hiking and many other things, just live life to the fullest. I love the outdoors and renting a cabin in the mountains or just being one with nature. It would be my dream to drive an RV around the country. I'm very incognito, I don't dress scantily clad or try to draw attention to myself. I am very confident with who I am and I know how to cook amazing meals and make the man I love feel special. I admire a man who is brave but careful, a great confident decision maker.