Love When you fall in love, It is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides, and when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to workout whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part……because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness. It is not excitement. It is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No…. Don’t blush. Love it self is what is left over, when being in Love has burned away. It doesn’t sound exciting!!! But it is.