I am a grounded person who knows what it is in life I desire and want. I enjoy being happy and want to be center around happiness. I believe life is full of adventure and it is up to the individual to get it. I enjoy traveling, love a great novel and mostly help people. what I am looking for....well, a strong man, who is not self center, one who is loving, kind and gentle. He must have a balance head who can take a problem and manage it without the aggressiveness. I am seeking a lover, friend and someone to grow old and enjoy the grandchildren together.