YES I AM A REAL PERSON 40 something , emotionally healthy, not into boys , seeking someone who wants friendship that leads to marriage. I am not your baby sitter, your mama , or an option . I am very honest, blunt, sarcastic, witty, and I possess a great sense of humor . Oh if you don’t pray regularly we won’t be a good match !! No long distance relationships I am a mixed race and fluent in 5 languages. I am not looking for a hook up or games. I love ve variety of foods and music. I can’t sing but I live dancing