Happiness is a mindset & Love is a Nirvana reset of the mind

[The title is a double notion and a lot heavier than its face value. Food for thoughts potentially over the 1st exploratory date?] You: - Fifties | Well educated | Kindhearted & often pay it forward - Deep thinker, honest to a fault, work hard and very unique on what quality time means - You don't "need" him, nor are you here to adopt his lifestyle should he pass the looks threshold; that's lame! You’re here just to check if he exists, but have no plans what that would mean Me: - Kindhearted and often pay it forward - INTJ personality type (plz look it up, it might be a deal breaker) - Well educated | Work in Science/Engineering (Medical Device Industry) | Write scientific papers - I play some music, and I have had an eye for photography since youth - Apatheist (i.e., faith REALLY is irrelevant to me). I still support you being whatever faith means to you - Had GREAT long-term relationships prior to marriage; the latter failed miserably despite dragging on for 2 decades - All my life, I cooked, washed my dishes & ironed my clothes, including during marriage! Something that made my ex' friends always flirt with me, driving her nuts I'm told I look a decade younger and sound a decade wiser, with a smart sense of humor. The decade I care for is with you, provided we go over the double title above on a second date with some Deep Thoughts in a Saturday Night (pun intended to SNL's 90s sketch)