No I am not a Grand father

I still, in my 40s, have most of my hair by the grace of god and I’m being a wee bit generous with “most”. Stable, respectful and educated. Professional by day, Chauffeur, chef, tutor and teddy bear by night. I make great Italian food, but I’m terrible at making Arabic food. Anything outside Kelayet bandora is mind-numbingly difficult for me for some reason. I’m a transplant from the east coast. I have 2 amazing little girls I am raising who make me feel a lot younger than I am and a lot older at the same time. Enjoying and appreciating the minutia in day to day life and my surroundings. Looking for someone similar. Care free, light hearted and in California are bonuses.