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In their own words

ENTJ - physical touch, acts of service.

I’m retired but still working to stay busy, traveling at every opportunity. I grew up with 7 older sisters, which taught me plenty about how to (and not to), treat a woman. I’m old school. Yes, I like to provide/protect and pamper my queen. Communication is so important. It seems so many problems arise when people are just not listening to each other, even when they actually are in agreement! We can do better. I am high energy, enjoy being active, doing something new/exciting and then unwinding with some veg time. At heart, I’m an intellectual that will go out of my way to address an injustice. That desire has stayed in my center throughout my life and career. I don’t make judgments without due diligence and learn from healthy sparring with others. Respect is a mutual and pivotal part of my growth. I’m empathetic to a fault, tenacious beyond reason. Lastly, I’m Christian. I harbor no ill will toward any other faith/religion but feel it necessary to point it out because I am not interested in being unequally yoked.

Appearance
Hair
Black
Eyes
Hazel
Physique
Average
Height
5' 11"   (180 cm)
Family Roots
Lebanese
Race
Middle Eastern
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Christian
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
I'll tell you later
Income
$45,000 - $60,000
Exercise
Occasionally
Politics
Conservative
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
I'll tell you later
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Tough to call but Anthony Hopkins is way up there.
Favorite Actresses
Kathy Bates
Favorite Artists
I’m not gonna fake it. My exposure limited.
Favorite Athletes
Magic Johnson (we were neighbors).
Favorite Authors
I read mostly nonfiction, psych books, the enneagram, history, etc…reading Jordan Peterson right now and really enjoying it.
Favorite Bands
Ok, I love music, all kinds of music. Led Zeppelin, Chris Stapleton, Ed Sheeran, Sade, M. Jackson, The Stones, Beatles, TuPac, Jelly Roll, and many more. Music is my go to for therapy.
Favorite Hangouts
A foreign country I’ve never been to! The list is long but I keep working on it.
Favorite Books
Depends on what I’m into at the moment.
Favorite Cities
Definitely the one where I create a new memory. You never know when you’re making history.
Favorite Clothing Stores
I only dress up out of necessity. My closet is packed with clothes that I seldom wear. While I can clean up pretty good, I much prefer comfort and practicality. No risk of being called ostentatious here!
Favorite Colors
Purple, though it’s difficult to use. Turquoise is another.
Favorite Country
The United States. Yep, I appreciate my rights and freedoms. I get it - the Country has done some bad things throughout our short history, but who hasn’t? The Government is not the people.
Favorite Drinks
Long Island Ice Tea - when properly made. Speyside or a good blended scotch would also work. I sound like a lush - at best, but I’m only a social drinker and can use this statement to weed out anyone that judges too harshly.
Favorite Fashion Designers
Pass
Favorite Fast Foods
Not big into fast food but In and Out nails it for me.
Favorite Magazines
Psychology Today, Chess magazine, the Robb Report…whatever gets me through the flight.
Favorite Comedies
Dave Chappell.
Favorite Dramas
Breaking Bad.
Favorite Horror Movies
The one that makes me laugh.
Favorite Action Movies
The Bourne series.
Favorite News Anchor
The one that isn’t lying, which means I don’t have one.
Favorite Night Clubs
Haven’t been to one in a while. I hear of good places in the valley but won’t claim I’ve been there.
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Seriously?? It depends on the who, the where and the why. I’m really more interested in her favorite place.
Favorite Plays
Phantom of the Opera. Fiddler on the roof. The next one I get to see. I live for the experience and try to find something in whatever I’m doing.
Favorite Politicians
The one I don’t have to listen to. I’m not cynical but rather speaking from (limited) experience and find them to be condescending, self-serving and habitually dishonest.
Favorite Sports Teams
Brace yourself; I don’t watch sports or follow it. I’m sure it serves a purpose but I never felt the need to watch men chase each other. I saw enough of that when I worked in the prison system!
Favorite Quote From A Movie
A man’s got to know his limitations. Dirty Harry.
Favorite Restaurants
Can’t remember the name but it’s in Dearborn and they hook it up in a special way. Makes me hungry thinking about it.
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Jelly Roll “winning Streak”. Chris Stapleton “It takes a woman”. Dylan Gossett “Coal”. Remember Garth Brooks - Shameless?
Favorite Sports
Pass
Favorite Stocks
The company that’s going to buy BlueHalo. I think they’re AeroVironment. I’m early in my research but BlueHalo is breaking into anti-drone systems that will be worth bank. The Chinese just ordered a million comma cozzie drones which will justify the US spending billions to shoot them down.
Favorite TV Comedies
Two and a half men, Green acres, the Big Bang.
Favorite TV Dramas
Breaking Bad, The Sopranos, House
Favorite TV News Sources
Straight Arrow News, but I don’t think they’re on TV. Not great but they give you a sense of what’s going on.
Favorite Foods
Grape leaves, anything with lamb, king crab, scallops…I’m so hungry.
Favorite Styles Of Music
Just about anything. Old blues, country, rap, rock, crooning. The exception is maybe Jazz.
Interests
Animals
Dogs. I do love all or most animals but can’t imagine a lion as a pet!
Board Games
Chess, scrabble and monopoly.
Cars
Yes please. I’m mechanically inclined and love cars.
Comedy
Always. Laughter is free and feels good. Don’t take yourself so serious.
Dancing
I would do it for you.
Live Concerts
I prefer recorded music but do go to concerts.
Math
I can do this.
Movies
I’m a movie buff and hope they get back to making good fils soon.
Philosophy
Philosophy is great but we need more action and less information.
Politics
Love to talk about it, even if we don’t agree. I’m happy to listen and/or learn.
Traveling
Won’t stop until I have to.
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Very High
Go Party Rarely
Religion Average
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Average
Work Ethic Workaholic
Insights
Describe your perfect weekend.
I like action and adrenaline with a nice crash at the end. It also depends on my company and circumstances. By and large, I’m young for my age.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes. It’s also a bit scary.
How many kids would you like to have?
More than I did. I don’t mind being around kids because I’ve grown in wisdom but I’m also done having them ie planting seeds.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
I have a type. I want to love and lust my woman. I’m not suggesting perfection - not at all - but attraction is important.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
I have a superpower but use it only when necessary.
What is the purpose of marriage?
To build each other up and be there when the shit hits the fan. That was too basic? A marriage is 100%. Sometimes one person is only giving 10 so the other person gives the 90. When neither has it, call on God to get you through the patch.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
I don’t care what people think of me. I’ll do my best but it may not be good enough for whoever. Forgive, give grace, accept that we’re all different and that’s for a reason.
What do your friends like about you most?
I’ll ask and get back to ya.
What gets on your nerves?
Inefficiency? Excuses, or lying instead of just saying what you think.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Communication. Love is a verb that takes action. Trust is gained. Respect is deserved and desired. Communication, or lack therefore, is usually the culprit.
What's the best age to get married?
I don’t know. I got married too young but maybe you’re more prepared.
What turns you off?
Writing this long dissertation about me!
What turns you on?
Deep conversations, touch, passion about whatever your passionate about, making memories and being there when needed. Eye contact.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Growing spiritually, having fun but with someone special, setting new goals and taking better care of myself to make up for past failures.
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