Still Single at 62. Looking For Serious Relationship That Leads to Marriage

New to NYC and looking to build genuine connections with single Muslim men, starting with friendship and seeing where things naturally lead. I prefer men from age 57 to 67. I am open-minded (but no sex outside of marriage) and genuinely enjoy good honest conversation and meeting new people. I value honesty and straightforward communication. I am still single at my age for different reasons. One is I didn't want kids. Another is I have siblings who are married to non-Muslims. I thought that might influence a man's decision about me and my family. I am a bit overweight but plan to lose weight because I feel like I am more myself as a slim person. Negatives: When I get upset, I like to spend time alone. Also, I only like very simple cooking but not daily. Don't like to spend much time with children. An ideal man would be a man with no grandkids but if has grandkids no babysitting more than an hour or two a week. I would like the man to want to spend time travelling overseas. Also, I have a cat and plan to get one more and maybe a little dog so must like pets. I would like a man who likes to spend time together and time alone. No smokers. Emotionally-healthy man or at least willing to communicate. I want a man who is emotionally-balanced. Not aggressive or sissy/passive/passive aggressive. I'm interested in meeting for coffee in Brooklyn cafes. I'd love to find someone to explore NYC with once we get to know each other. No texting friendships - only connections in person.