**Do not message me if you’re under 40. Dear Men that approach me with minimal effort. I don’t care how rich, famous, religious or well muscled you are. Low effort, avoidant, breadcrumb behavior signals lack of masculine leadership. And it’s deeply unattractive. I won’t send the first message. I’m someone who puts effort into herself—I enjoy feeling polished, taking care of my appearance, and maintaining a certain lifestyle. I’m attracted to a man who notices the details and appreciates that energy. I’m naturally drawn to a man who is established, confident, and knows how to lead with strength and intention. Someone who is grounded, driven, and values loyalty, respect, and building something meaningful. I have a strong personality, but I appreciate a man who brings out my softer side. With the right person, I’m supportive, affectionate, and all in. I’m here for a serious relationship/marriage, not games or situationships. I value honesty, emotional maturity, and people who mean what they say. I’m celibate by choice, which probably tells you a bit about my integrity, boundaries, and morals—and I’m looking for someone who respects that and shares similar values. I’m all about passion with my partner. Willing to wait to find the perfect one. .*I need a man fully in his masculine.