The biggest problem is when people rush into things, this is when bad choices are made. There is nothing to me better than getting to know someone, and become good friends, where trust, likability and more good things are established, then if it becomes something bigger, say marriage... then it will be amazing because then you'll be married to a GOOD FRIEND. We shouldn't talk to people with the idea of "marriage or nothing" on our minds. That's why I say lets be friends, get to know each other, no need to impress, no need to relief our mothers and get them off our backs by telling them we found someone LOL. But when it comes to something more serious, we have to make sure we share a lot of the same ideas because it's the future and the rest of our lives we could be talking about here. I am a muslim first and foremost, and I think I need to be a better muslim still. I am kind and easy going, I like to do things, any thing, especially try new things to keep life exciting, and I am easy to please. I can go on and on about myself, and who my perfect girl is, but it's something for us to discover later on isA, and compatibility doesn't always show on paper... Only time will tell.