Looking for specific things. I firmly believe in after life so if I don't find what I'm looking for in this life then I'm very satisfied and never desperate. Will not settle for less just because I "NEED" or "HAVE" to get married. I'm looking for someone who can make me feel I "WANT" to be married. Please respect my choices as I respect yours. It is ok to be rejected. I have been there my self :). So if I don't respond back don't be offended and keep harassing me. You will not get my attention by keep sending useless winks and emails.