Looking for good person

Sometimes it is hard to talk about yourself in writing but definitely i can express myself in much better way. I believe that some people appears to be lucky than others but if you dig deep inside everyone, you will eventually realize that we have the same equal share of life. The great blessing is to be satisfied with what you have and work out your life accordingly. I have a comment about females here. 85% of girls are putting a list of their future partner qualifications, their selection criteria and warning list about who can approach/can't approach. On the other side, only 15% mention what they offer to their life partners and talks about their plans to make their other half happy. I believe that these 15% are the only successful ones because they are proactive and know how to sell themselves (in good term). Also, 70% of girls don't want someone to waste their time. It seems from what i read that 99% of men are time consumers and mis-manage their lives. Can i get a good reason?