I'm looking for the right woman in my life and expecting the long -term in order to make strong faith in love. Seriously, its all subjective.. There no generic template, but someone who is at ease with themself is a good start. Meeting somewhere where you'd feel no pressure would be good too. Meet for coffee, or for a drink in the pub.. Contribute to conversation and show an interest (both parties). I haven't made up my mind yet what kind of reward it's going to be... but probably something nice, something like my open heart and sincerity. yes, it's a real reward that should be deserved as i'm quite reserved in everyday life and i should know a person really well to feel at ease.