You only get to live once, so its always carpe diem for me (seizing the moment), whats the point of living if you cant live? And just to cut the long story short I am looking for a friend with benefits. Good clean and pragmatic relationship based on sex when needed and without any undermining and disrespect nor any judgement of any kind, why should there be in the first? Sex is not an obscene or dirty act, it is natural, healthy and necessary, I just truly believe monogamy is against human nature. I am not a perv nor sleazy nor desperate for that matter. Am quite intellectual, high IQ and EQ, very athletic, love cooking (helps me meditate) and have a passion for adopting animals. I can talk about anything of everything and trust me I will have an opinion and stance about it, life is pretty simple, its just that people are quite complicated!