I'm an attractive, articulate, accomplished athlete ideally seeking the same (late 20's or early 40s)...not so much as a"mirror athlete", but someone that's driven to push themselves competitively approaches everything in life with goals. I'm attracted to individuals that make it a point to go out of their way to be thoughtful, selfless and deliberately make choices that make an impact on other's lives in a positive way. Or for those whose talents don't match their conscience, someone that volunteers their time to some charitable cause/organization. Ultimately, a 6 pack is nice attraction/chemistry IS important but I'd really prefer a genuinely good guy who's the type that smiles more often than not, makes me laugh and gives more than he takes.