Before reading this man I advise you to play at least two complete games of chess.You must learn the rules THEY play by.you must realize objectively that some men are more valuable then others and that the king is the most valuable of all.You cannot learn reality if you get caught up in the FANTASY that "it's not fair".You must come to know that the ultimate outcome of the game "life" is the only thing that counts........... I love you every moment of every day soulmate.