So, I was completely anti- dating sites. That quickly changed as work kept taking chunks out of my social life! I'm a single guy who works very hard and is extremely dedicated to my career. In my free time I enjoy going out or staying in and relaxing at home. Family and friends are one of the most important aspects in my life, they have always been my support for anything. I also like to have a good time with down to earth people who can hold a conversation. Played college tennis, however since those days were done a few years ago, I golf with clients and play basketball. If someone gains my trust I am a very loyal individual and would do anything for that person. While we all want to eventually find someone, I'm not quite sure if I'm in a hurry to find my "soul mate". Before I just dive into things with someone I really have to get to know that person and take things slow. If you are a lady who respects herself, and portrays herself in a good light, GREAT! I think it's great for a woman to be independent yet at the same time not be afraid to maintain a feminine side. Looking for someone with a content and appreciative attitude.