Just because something has failed before, doesn't mean it will fail again. I don't let past disappointments weigh too heavily in my expectations of future likelihood of success.When I meet someone and there are big complications (a long commuting distance, entanglements from a previous relationship, etc.) it doesn't deter me. I figure if this relationship is worth having we can work just about anything out. I'm a person who attaches emotionally to one person at a time. If I'm content in my relationship, I couldn't be drawn out of it, or into a new relationship or into an intimate adventure, even if the person was extremely attractive or beautifull or even wealthy than who I am with at that time. When I am committed to someone, I am rock solid. I never wonder about what I am missing or whether or not I should be with someone else in a different kind of life. I like to plan out everything in advance. I don't like plans being changed at the last minute.I get upset when people change their mind at the last minute and don't show up at a party or appointment they said they would attend - no matter how casual the event might be. I think it's rude. It would bother me if my partner simply decided not to do something at the last minute that we had agreed to do.If I feel loving, I'm very passionate and all over the person I want. I don't moderate my romantic and sexual emotions. When I start something new, I expect it to work out.