Be honest. Don't play games; unless the girl is really insecure she doesn't just want to hear you flatter her. Do what you can to catch and keep her attention, but don't play with her mind or her heart. Once you lose a woman's trust, it's near impossible to regain. Be honest about your own interests. Women can understand if you like comics! and in some cases relate to it, but if that's all you talk about then you need to hit the road. Be confident! Nobody wants a guy who acts unsure of himself. But don't become so full of yourself that you come across as cocky or stuck up.