I have work hard, play hard philosophy on life. I have a very high stress job, so I like to get out and ejoy life on my terms. I am confident but quiet, tender but never fragile. I enjoy good long talks, good wine and good music, often all at the same time! I am very active and have a hard time sitting still for long. In the summer I like to camp, swim, picnic, garden and travel (mostly locally). In the winter I like to cozy up by the fire with a good book or a good movie. I am an avid reader. I will read anything, but I especially love a book that makes me think. I am looking for a friendship to start and possibly grow to more. I wouldn't mind a long term companionship if it was the right person at the right time (who can fight chemistry, right?) Looking for