Looking for my soul mate

I live in the US and looking for an Iraqi woman around my age who lives or willing to relocate to the US. I'm divorced with two kids age 22 and 14 and the youngest lives with her mom. I do not want any more kids but if you have you own kids then that's fine. I have my life together and own a house and been in the same job for the last 16 years as a systems administrator. I see my self as a kind, easy going person who respects others and treat them like I want to be treated. As I got older, I tend to think first before I speak :) There is no specific physical attributes that I'm looking for in my partner but I know I want someone that is emotionally available, with at least average smarts and most of all kind and loving to others. I'm currently over weight but I'm seriously working on it and these pictures are from a couple months ago.