I am going to make it simple and straight to the point . I am here to find my soul mate not just my partner in life. While we live in the day and age where most men and women look at marriage in a way where is the benefit of it ? I still look at it the way it was in the mid centuries meaning based on love and compatibility . I am a very simple person yet appreciate quality and won't just settle for anything and everything .if I started to confuse you contact me and I will explain. I am not a paid member and won't be since am not interested in chatting over this site with a gazillion lady or so but rather find just the one who can really attract me to a point that I will send her a wink and let her do the registering as a paid member and contact me . I am just looking for that lady I can enjoy each and every minute I spend with and at the same time don't feel ashamed of introducing to my family or friends . All the rest comes as a secondary to me if you and I click .