my ideal is tall with a medium build and dark hair. sweet and sexy and he HAS to smell great. i hate it when a girl complians and he cant be TOO nice because i can be a little mean sometimes ( not often but if he does sumtin stupid he has to he able to take a small insult) he has to talk a lot and hold my hand. he haas to want or desire me alll the time ( nd letting me kiss her whenever is nice too) My ideal mate would be a little taller than me (i`m. 5"4) with dark hair (long) and definately know her place as a female and mine as male. Confident but not cocky, and very loving, supportive, and understanding. Oh am a real father figure for my baby someone who absolutely adored children.