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Female
Divorced
Chicago, Illinois
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In their own words

Unlucky in love...

NO PHOTO? - DON'T CONTACT ME. "Do not think you can guide the course of love. For love, if it finds you worthy, shall guide your course.” Willing to take another chance - are you the person I can trust? Life is so short, shorter than we realize, patience, intelligence, realistic expectations and compassion are crucial for happiness. Romance and great kissing helps too!! I don’t care about your $$ or your car. INTJ-look it up LIKE: Music, smart men, books, thunderstorms, high heels, cooking in my kitchen, egoism, EPL soccer, kissing, road trips, fireplaces, playlists, poetry and F1. DISLIKE: vanity, lack of empathy, selfishness Looking For: Are you man enough to be my man? No rushing into marriage, a piece of paper doesn't make the love reali. A MAN who knows how to communicate what they want and who is comfortable with his sexuality, confident and strong enough to show weakness. No hookups...looking for LTR.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Athletic
Height
5'  4"   (163 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Social Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Other
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Classical, Dance / Electronica / House, Latin, Middle Eastern / Persian / Arabic
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Edward Norton // Gary Oldman // Ben Kingsley // Tom Hardy
Favorite Actresses
Meryl Streep // Jennifer Lawrence // Katherine Hepburn
Favorite Artists
Banksy & Nick Cave but I prefer photography-Sam Wagstaff collection
Favorite Athletes
Roberto Carlos // Mousa Dembeli // Stacy Tovar
Favorite Authors
Jimmy Carter // Augusten Burroughs // Douglas Coupland // Ayn Rand
Favorite Bands
Daft Punk // Trentemoeller // Goldfrapp // Crystal Castles
Favorite Hangouts
anywhere my friends are
Favorite Books
Atlas Shrugged // Generation X // The Genius of Birds // Dune series
Favorite Cities
Palm Springs // Chicago // Moab UT
Favorite Country
Used to be France till I married a Frenchman....
Favorite Drinks
water // coffee with extra cream // champagne // pinot noir from Oregon
Favorite Fashion Designers
Rick Owen
Favorite Fast Foods
never
Favorite Magazines
Smithsonian / Wired / NYT Sunday Magazine
Favorite Comedies
too many to mention
Favorite Dramas
Penny Dreadful / The Night Of
Favorite News Anchor
John Stewart // Stephen Colbert // Bill Maher
Favorite Night Clubs
yawn...
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
the palm of my hand // behind ear
Favorite Plays
Opera - one of the most romantic evenings ever...
Favorite Politicians
Obama (sexy and smart is a potent combination)
Favorite Sports Teams
Tottenham Hotspurs (To Dare Is To Do!) // Mercedes Team- F1
Favorite Restaurants
The Capital Grille // Sepia // Leo's Lunch Counter
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Dune 2022 Soundtrack - Max Richter
Favorite Sports
Soccer / Formula One Racing
Favorite TV Comedies
Top Gear
Favorite TV Dramas
Survivorman / Flipping Out / Street Outlaws
Favorite TV News Sources
Stephanie Ruhle / Vice News / Colbert
Favorite Foods
steak and salad / baked alaskan / ceviche
Favorite Styles Of Music
electronica, persian, north african music
Interests
Acting
ambivilent
Animals
love them
Antiques
love them
Art
required!
Astrology
a fun past time
Astronomy
love it - good to look up!
Barbecues
ok
Bars
its not where you are, its who you are with...
Basketball
no
Biology
always loved it
Board Games
great in the winter time!
Business Finance
its worth the time spent
Camping
can be romantic with the right person
Card Games
love them
Cars
like them but not impressed by them
Children
love my nieces
Circus
inhumane
Comedy
anything that makes me laugh is GREAT!
Community Service
necessary
Cooking
love it - can we cook a meal together?
Dancing
great foreplay
Dating
too much pressure
Dogs and Cats
either
Exercise
everyday
Food
doesn't turn me on, not a foodie
Football
only the European kind
Gambling
not interested
Gardening
love it - every weekend!
Live Concerts
as important to me as eating and sleeping!
Medicine
holistic
Movies
Whiplash
Opera
try to go at least three times a year
Painting
i respect it
Pets
None
Philosophy
enlightening
Photography
interesting
Politics
frustrating
Psychology
the id and the ego
Radio
NPR, traditional Persian music, KEXP Seattle
Reading
Voraciously - read everything I can get my hands on. Lots of books and newspapers-NY Times on Sunday in bed!
Religion
created by men-brain washing-horrible to women
Running
necessary
School
important
Shopping
not that important to me
Singing
in the shower
Sky Diving
no interest
Soccer
one of my passions
Television
only for soccer games
Tennis
love it
Traveling
I don't do enough.
Walking
I walk to and from work, i enjoy immensely
Writing
very important to have an imagination
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Very Skeptical
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Very Dependent
Mood Intense
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Average
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Very Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Formal
Energy Somewhat High
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Not a Part At All
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Cuddled on the couch in front of a fire, trading off reading verses of Chinese poetry to eachother OR In a northern country watching the Aurora Borealis while drinking champagne and holding hands OR laying on the forest floor counting all the stars in the sky and making all our wishes come true.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
No but I believe in heated attraction at first sight - pheromones can be deliciously distracting
How many kids would you like to have?
0
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Its how I feel with them = what's in their souls and hearts that makes them magnificent or forgettable. I've known beautiful men who were vain as the day is long - that's just tiring. I admire someone who takes care of themselves and is in shape, it shows self-respect..
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
Not a smart question. Of course - wouldn't we all want to help others in anyway we could?
What is the purpose of marriage?
Capitalism - Societal Enforced Monogamy - Established Religion
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
When to walk away - although that's a difficult learning curve.
What do your friends like about you most?
How deeply I care and my loyalty...it leads to heaven or hell in my personal dating life.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My naivate. My love of soccer. Trusting the wrong men...
What gets on your nerves?
Users & players / when people are so mean to each other. Men who only want one thing from a woman. People who lie on their profiles. Prejudice - i have a big problem with that one.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Someone who will know me 75% - that's alot.
What's the best age to get married?
I've been married and I found out the hard way when two people should not be married.
What turns you off?
a) People who are only concerned with getting their own needs met - selfishness. (are you seeing [reading] a pattern here?! HA!) b) People who rely on their looks to get them ahead.... c) When people think that money, cars and possessions make them real men or a substantial human being. d) Prejudice!!!
What turns you on?
Passion, super brains, assertiveness and the ability to kiss well. That's all you get - the rest is for you to discover.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Living in another country - living a peaceful life with the one I love.
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