I am Single 5' 9", 141 lbs., and a healthy guy. I am self-sufficient, handsome, happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotiona lly and financially secure. and working as a Pay Master in one company,am Living alone,i am a Nigrian By Birth,my Father and my mother are From Nigeria..i am a Hard working guy and very friendly have no Kids and Never Married.. I am graduate and i am Studies counseling psychology.....lol I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humour, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work.As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well.As you can tell, I am not a bs'er and believe in total communication........... Not that we can do that all the time, but ultimately we can get the feelings out without too much delay, I hope. I believe in getting to know my partner and communication seems to be the best way to do this. I am adventurous. love to see new places and experience new things My desire is to meet a beautiful, sensitive, sensuous, warm, assertive single woman who wants a friend. My interpretation of a friend is one to whom you can pour out all the contents of your heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentleness of hands will take it all.