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Looking for my Christian princess

I'm on this site to find somebody that I can call my soulmate. Ideally she would be intelligent, educated, worldly, sophisticated, kind, caring, beautiful, from a good family, and Christian. I'm looking to start a family with that person and have many children who would share our faith with the world. I come from a Hindu family, and I spent most of adolescence and adulthood as a fairly militant atheist. But by some miracle, after all of the attempts by apologetics and the extraordinary kindness of ordinary believers, I finally came to Christ. I was once a pretty logical and rational person. Then I volunteered as a sexual assault survivor counselor and developed the ability to see ghosts and I learned that not everything is provable by reason and logic and that empathy is more important than being right. Yes I’m clairvoyant and can see ghosts and chakras. Math has always been one of my greatest competitive advantages. I worked as an actuary (though I burned out after a few exams), and I still work in an analytical role. Yet oddly enough, I'm very accepting of people as they are, wear my heart on my sleeve and am caring and empathetic to a fault. I have quite a plethora of interests, ranging from archaeology, art, music, and literature, to nature, history, and politics, to travel, wines, and gastronomy. Of course I also love anything related to math and science. I've been reading Nat Geo since age 6 and the Economist since age 16 if that says anything.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Black
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Average
Height
5' 11"   (180 cm)
Family Roots
Indian
Race
East Indian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
Yes
Religion
Christian
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Financial / Accounting / Insurance / Real Estate
Income
$60,000 - $75,000
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Very Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English, French, Hindi
Favorite Music
Acoustic, Alternative, Blues, Classical, Classic Rock, Dance / Electronica / House, Hard Rock / Metal, Hard Rock / Metal, Latin, Middle Eastern / Persian / Arabic, Rock & Roll, Punk, Rap / Hip-Hop, Reggae, Religious
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Matt Damon (Syriana!), Robert Redford, Harrison Ford, Jim Parsons (Sheldon Cooper)
Favorite Actresses
Meryl Streep, Mayim Bialik (Amy Farah Fowler), Natalie Portman, Mila Kunis
Favorite Artists
Monet, Cezzane, Boticelli, Raphael, Salvador Dali
Favorite Authors
William Styron, Fyodor Dostoevsky, Alexandre Dumas, Ernest Hemingway
Favorite Bands
U2, Metallica, Rise Against, Nightwish (Finnish), Foster the People, Myriam Fares, Elissa
Favorite Books
Sophie's Choice
Favorite Cities
NY, LA, London, Paris, San Francisco, Rio, Luxor (Egypt, not Vegas), Damascus, Jerash, Byblos, Baghdad
Favorite Clothing Stores
Banana Republic, Eddie Bauer, Addidas, REI
Favorite Country
Probably Norway or Switzerland. Also absolutely LOVED Egypt, Syria, Greece, and Constantinople/Anatolia (while spending in dollars of course)
Favorite Drinks
Any bitter, hoppy IPA. Diplomatico rum mixed with fresh passion fruit juice. Arak mixed with mint lemonade. Love wines of all different types. Gin & pomegranate juice, water, skim milk, Arabic coffee
Favorite Fast Foods
Chick-Fil-A
Favorite Magazines
The Economist, National Geographic
Favorite Horror Movies
The Poltergeist, The Amityville Horror, The Exorcist
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
The lips, then the neck and behind the ears
Favorite Politicians
Jimmy Carter, Bill Clinton, Al Gore, Tulsi Gabbard, Bashar Al Assad, Mikhail Yuhanna
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Rise Against I Don't Want to Live Here Anymore
Favorite Sports
Running/track and field events, anything at the olympics
Favorite TV Comedies
The Big Bang Theory!
Favorite TV Dramas
Criminal Minds
Favorite TV News Sources
MSNBC, PBS, BBC
Favorite Foods
Sushi, butter chicken curry w/nan, dolmehs, mezze with olives and cheese, fish, arabic coffee w/halva, stuffed spinach pizza, any breakfast at a 5* hotel in Syria, Lebanon, or Turkey
Favorite Styles Of Music
Everything except country
Interests
Animals
All kinds, but especially parrots
Antiques
Ancient pieces in museums, yes. Collecting old furniture and knick knacks, no.
Art
I love art museums and have read up on the history of art
Astrology
mumbo jumbo, though I'm a Virgo if you must know
Astronomy
interesting
Barbecues
Love all kinds
Bars
Love bars with good food, a nice atmosphere, and a very large selection of beers, wines, and spirits
Basketball
No thanks
Biology
I LOVE bio
Board Games
Words with friends. Also bought a gorgeous chess board in Egypt.
Business Finance
It's part of work
Camping
Too dirty, I prefer hotels
Card Games
Good at them if they involve strategy or statistics
Cars
Yes I have one, a fun convertible. No I'm not obsessed with them
Children
Love kids and want a bunch with my future wife.
Circus
Acrobats, yes; abused animals, no
Comedy
Yes! Love comedy clubs!
Community Service
Tutoring math and science
Cooking
Love to cook
Dancing
I'd like to learn how, lol
Dating
Why am I on here?!
Drawing
stick figures and diagrams
Exercise
Used to be a fanatic, then became a couch potato. Now becoming a fanatic again
Food
Love just about every cuisine, but my favorite is Middle Eastern
Gambling
Fun within limits but I gamble VERY rarely. Don't challenge me in poker because I used to work as an actuary!
Gardening
Love to grow my own organic veggies
Guns
No
Internet
Addicted
Live Concerts
Yes
Math
Is beautiful!
Medicine
Another former pre-med dropout, right here!
Movies
Horror, drama, suspense, action, movies dealing with world events
Opera
Yes
Painting
We could say absract or modern art, lol!
Pets
None but would like a parrot someday
Philosophy
Interesting but too detatched from reality
Photography
Yes! Especially nature and archaeology photography when I travel!
Politics
Very involved, very liberal
Psychology
Very interested and study independently
Radio
Yes, but the radio stations in Chicago suck
Reading
The Economist, National Geographic, and other newspapers and magazines. Sophie's Choice. Also trying to read the Bible.
Religion
My faith is the backbone of my life
Rugs
Love silk rugs!
Running
Lost some stamina and speed since I was 16 but love it.
School
Essential
Shopping
When I need something. Not a shopping fanatic though.
Sky Diving
Love it
Snowboarding
I can wakeboard but no snowboarding
Soccer
Love to watch but don't really play
Technology
Technophobe
Television
Big Bang Theory!
Tennis
Enjoy it but not great at it
Theater
Yes
Traveling
It's what I live for. I work 49 weeks of the year to splurge it on 3 weeks of exotic travel
Video Games
Not really
Walking
Yes
Writing
Articles, commentary, op-ed pieces, and journals/reports. Nothing else
Personality
Adventurousness Very Daring
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Somewhat Skeptical
Confidence Very Confident
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Average
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Very Extroverted
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Formal
Energy Somewhat High
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Large Part
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Always Late
Spending Average
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Honestly, I like to let it play out. I like to start with coffee, wine, sushi, mezze, etc. Then if we like each other, go somewhere for a main course and spend a long time getting to know each other. Then just relaxing by Buckingham Fountain (in the summer) or some nice cozy spot somewhere and talking into the wee hours of the night. Ideally it would end with a good night kiss.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I believe in infatuation at first sight and limerence at first meeting.
How many kids would you like to have?
4
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
I hate to admit it but it's very important. It's a double standard because I haven't taken perfect care of myself in recent years (I did before). But it just is.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
I would put Christ into the hearts of all human beings so that we can end the hatred and violence. I would also restore all ecosystems to a pristine state and reverse the trends of climate change and mass extinction. I’d also restore all archaeological ruins to their original state. And I’d wipe both black magic/evil eyes/demons and narcissists/psychopaths from the face of the earth
What is the purpose of marriage?
To have a soulmate with whom one can build a life and family together. Two partners choose each other and they create new lives that are a miraculous combination of themselves and the one they love. And they stay together, whatever challenges arise, they nurture each other and grow together.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
The most precious resource we have is our minds, knowledge, and work ethic. One can take away your property or business. Your stocks can go belly up. But your skills will make you desirable and enable you to thrive wherever you may go.
What do your friends like about you most?
My sense of empathy. My knowledge of various topics and ability to hold long and interesting conversations. The hilarious stories I tell and the witty comments I make. My adventurous and daring nature.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
Being OCD about almost everything, tapping my feet, being a savant (they call me the walking encyclopedia), being completely crazy in the risks I'm willing to take (I won't take them when I'm married and have kids, lol)
What gets on your nerves?
Hypocrisy, lack of empathy, Da'ish/ISIS, destruction of ecosystems and archaeological ruins, jealousy (a little bit is flattering, but too much is aggravating and embarassing), people who condemn gays and call women in bikinis whores while practicing polygamy, getting easy divorces, and looking at porn, people who litter or don't recycle, people who don't flush the toilet when they use it.
What's the best age to get married?
guys, 31-36, girls 26-31. But there's no hard and fast rule. It matters when you're ready.
What turns you off?
Disloyalty, lack of empathy, hypocrisy, people with a mean spirit, in-laws from hell, lol, also bad breath and lack of hygeine
What turns you on?
Intelligence, wit, beauty, eyes, intrigue, humor, kindness, love, warmth, passion, faith.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
I hope to have gotten back on track and passed all of my actuarial exams, then making well into the six figures and secure in my career as a fully credentialed actuary. That way I will be able to very comfortably support the amazing woman I will have married and the many children we will have begun making.
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