Give me a reason to become a paid member :)

I am very social and meet people all the time...I would like to meet someone who is confident, kind, well traveled, smart, and who takes pride in his appearance. I am high-energy most of the time, but don't mind to chill at home every now and again. I have been married to my work for a while now...time to focus on other things in life... I think that no matter what you write in this box, it won't do me or you any justice ;o) Looking For: chill people...ONLY american raised folks comfortable in their own skin