Love does not happen in a week, or a month. Love needs tests, difficult times, disagreements. You cannot determine that you love the sea by standing on a beach.. you have to sail to know if you really love it; Once the waves hit you hard and knock you down; and you swallow the salty water; sharp rocks cutting your skin; and you see the scary darkness at the bottom.. then when you return to the beach you will see it differently. Only then you can truly determine if you really love. I like: a growth mindset, yoga,trying new restaurants walking & talking, style & substance, great coffee by a water view ,chess learning new things, books, shopping hosting and cooking, being outside, nights that flow into sunrise p God decides who you meet in your life and your behavior decides who stays in your life ...I'm a hopeless romantic and I strongly believe in love... looking for a head on shoulder's man someone wise attentive thoughtful and attentionate P.S I live with my 13 years boy