Look is important--- but not sufficient. Talent, style, and good sense of humor are quite vital as well. Being funny and smart gives a unique meaning for attraction. The ability to write well and formulate words that influence others to feel them as they are (intended) is an admirable experience. In love like in life, we conceal the true intention/s- not revealing the disappointing side of us. We often hold deeply rooted emotions that can be crushed. Mental connection can make relationships last longer, but the possibility for failure is high. The world can be cruel, but full of conflicting things - so make your own choices and deal with the consequences.