I'm NOT a paying member. I probably won't be one again. *** I PREFER SOMEONE WHO'S IN VANCOUVER-BC, CANADA OR THE USA. ********** Been a member on this site for so many years but never met anyone. So, at this point I'm no longer looking for marriage. Have been single for many long years and I'm OK staying single. It's not really bad or hard being single. Now I'm only here looking for friendship, even just online friendship. Having said that, I'm a very loving and caring person who's also very affectionate. I have a lot of love to give and I would've liked to have a woman to dote on even if it were just a platonic relationship. Nice, kind-hearted, honest, mellow, very affectionate and compassionate, know right from wrong and actually apply it in my life. I'm a free-thinker with an independent mind. I don't say things to impress people while hiding a dark side. What you see is what you get. Looking for a woman who's the same. Not interested in materialistic and shallow women. It's a HUGE turn off. I appreciate and value intelligence and really enjoy intellectual conversations. Do you ?